I hope you can sit down with your family and discuss your health. Nothing to be embarrassed about, nor ashamed.
Everyone of us goes through tough times, and we all have to make adjustments.
I'm glad the tumor is benign. That in itself makes you a lucky man.
There are plenty of doctors out there that are talented and capable enough to remove the tumor and get you healed up.
Hope to hear positive updates from you soon.
Until then, rest, and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.